People think of me as the nice girl, the sweet girl. Which, I am. But I have other sides to me as well. I’m weird and short-tempered and I make mistakes. I’m mature, but I’m also not. I’m human. Part of me wishes that everyone could see every side to me, that everyone knew who I truly am. But also, I don’t care. I can’t care about everyone. I used to. I will wholly and fully admit to that. I used to care so much about what everyone thought of me that I lost sight of myself in the process.
These days I care about what I think of me. I care that I am a good person. I care that I forgive myself for my mistakes. I care that my friends and family know I’ll be there for them if they ever need me. Beyond that, it’s like… if people understand then they truly understand me and if they don’t, there’s nothing I can do about it.
I stay up too late, I wake up too early. I spend more money than I should and I drink farrrrr too much coffee for my own good. I’m inherently flawed and I’m proud of that fact.
This so honest it is so motivating ☺️
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Thank you!!!
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We all are beautifully flawed Vee. Someone has rightly said, that our vibe should be a product of our heart and not our environment. Be who you are and as you are. We all have our unique shades 😉 😎 🤗
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Thank you ❤
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This is a sweet admit of who you are and what you no longer chose to be. Good for you! When we stop caring what others think we learn who we are. And it’s true that we never really know what people think of us anyway so why bother yourself about worrying.
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You’re absolutely right. The only opinion that should matter of who you are is your own.
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Nice to know we all have our own way of being that may not be what anyone else likes or understands but it’s not for them to love, it’s for us as individuals to love ourselves!
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Absolutely! You owe it to yourself to love yourself first!
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These days, we are all a mixture of having a superiority complex and somehow having as just as powerful an inferiority complex.
It was likely always this way and people wouldn’t say it but “normal” has become “abnormal”.
100% of the population do not feel “100%”.
Not one of us are “ok”, and that’s ok.
Look after yourself first, and the rest will follow.*
*Cannot guarantee taking heed of my words will yield good outcomes.
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I do believe you are correct with everything you’ve said here.
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We are perfect impefection. You’re so honest and real even to yourself. 😊👍
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Being open and honest with yourself is the best way to lead an authentic life.
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You sound a lot like me🙌🏾😍kindred spirits.
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Well I’m so glad there are others out there just like me. That makes me feel like there’s hope for this world yet!
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There is always hope out there, I call him Jesus. My lord and saviour 🙌🏾❣👊🏾
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This is beautiful💛
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Thank you ❤
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Actually it touched my heart to be honest…when we stop caring about others, we get to set the priority on ourselves no matter what!! And when that comes, along with it comes peace and productivity!💙💙
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You’re right, it really is such a good way to find inner-peace… being okay with yourself and making yourself a priority.
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Yeah I come first!
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♥️
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Thank you for reading ❤
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My pleasure! Your post reminded me of myself.
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Stay true to you, perfectly flawed. 😊
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Wise words ❤
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That is the right attitude :). BTW, I stay up late and wake up insanely early, so that my total sleep time is not more than 5 hours ever. And I drink TOO MUCH coffee (by all standards), and I do not drink water.
Oh, and also I consume 11 times more chocolate than average American 🙂
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ooooooooooooh chocolate. Chocolate is also one of the best parts to each day!!
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LOVE this! 🙂 (I’ve downed almost an entire pot of coffee in the last couple hours…)
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HAHA! I bet we’d get along awfully well then.
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Aww I love you even more V! ❤️ Radically, beautifully AUTHENTIC! Ohhh, definitely my type of person! ❤️
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Would love to send you my special message, V! Kindly email me:
YBP@passcodelove.com
OR may please I know your email add….
WITH MUCH LOVE AND ADMIRATION
❤️💙💚💜💛
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**OR may I please know your email add….** WITH MUCH LOVE AND ADMIRATION ❤️💙💚💜💛
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You can email me at millenniallifecrisis12@gmail.com if you would like to send me a message!
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Oh fantastic! Will do V ❤️
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Yup! Done! ❤️
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This is the attitude we all should have! ❤️
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I definitely think it’s a type of attitude we should all strive for. After all, we’re all different, but we can all start somewhere!
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Agreed!
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I’m sold, you sound lovely.
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That’s so sweet! Thank you ❤
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You don’t need to change yourself, the world will adjust.
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Here’s to hoping for that, anyway. Right? And even if they don’t I’m learning to be good with exactly who I am.
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“ I used to care so much about what everyone thought of me that I lost sight of myself in the process.”
I have been there too. I love your authenticity. I wish more people were so real.
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Thank you for the wonderful compliment. It means a great deal, especially to me tonight. I needed a pick-me-up.
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Hmmmm . . .
I drink too much coffee. For my own good? Maybe. But certainly too much. It’s my equivalent of lighting up a cigarette when I’m bored. Also having problems going to sleep at night. Not sure what’s causing that. Been meaning to google sleeplessness. But just haven’t gotten around to it. Does too much coffee cause laziness? Imma have to check that out. Perhaps tomorrow.
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Love this. It’s like ur talking about me
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Maybe I am. Maybe I am your long lost twin sister?
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Maybe 😅
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