Dear Self ,
It’s okay to not be okay.
It’s okay to be a mess.
It’s okay to not have to a plan. To not know what’s next. To not know how to fix your problems.
Newsflash: EVERYONE has problems. Everyone has struggles. Not everyone knows how to deal with them. That’s not shameful, or embarassing, nor does it make you stupid. It makes you normal.
What matters is that you continue to make an effort. What matters is that you don’t give up. What matters is that you just keep going, regardless of what the universe throws at you.
You can take it.
I promise you that you can take it. You can conquer it. You can defeat the demons, slay the beasts, defy on the odds and come through this with your head held high.
No one escapes struggles in life. So please, stop thinking that you’re alone in this and realize that people can and want to help. Likewise, people need help themselves and you can be an ally. Be an ally.
As much as you might not believe it, there is a reason for everything in life. If you’re being tested right now, you’re being tested for a reason. If things aren’t falling into place, no matter how much work you put forth, no matter how much progress you feel you’re making, there’s a reason for that.
Buckle in. Be ready for the fight to continue. Until the tables turn, until it’s your time for the limelight, until things fall into place, you need to keep going. You cannot give up.
No matter how messy it gets, no matter how much you doubt yourself, I beg of you, please don’t give up.
Sincerely, Me
Thank you V. This is deep😭, yet encouraging and I love that you can express this. Thank you for not giving up. I love you. You’re a remarkable woman and I absolutely love your perseverance.
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Thank you, my dear. Sometimes life is a struggle but I guess it’s just all the more reason to keep going. So I hope you keep going.
And thank you for the sweet compliment. ❤
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You’re welcome. People (employers) can be so fucking insensitive. As if they never had to seek employment. I guess they forgot what it was like when they were looking for employment. They weren’t born into employment. 🤦🏽♀️🤬
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Thanks a lot
These words mean lot to me
I really needed such support
Thanks
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Absolutely do not give up! You have a special caring whimsical quality that is endearing and inspiring. Keep writing! Hugs
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Thank you for such a kind compliment. I absolutely feel undeserving of such kind words, but I do appreciate them a lot. This struggling soul is thankful for you tonight ❤
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My iFit trainer reminded me of this today. That what’s important is showing up and that you keep moving forward. Best wishes.
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Ahhh, I haven’t been wearing mine but now that you say that I’m reminded that mine used to be really motivating for me as well. Perhaps I should put it back on my wrist, now that you’ve reminded me.
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Not sure what you mean? I’m referring to an app with my bike. Are you referring to a fitness bracelet?
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Ohh, I have a fitness bracelet. I thought that’s what you meant. lol. Sorry
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No worries. 😊
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Such a good letter! More people need to read this to themselves and give a little love to themselves!
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Self love is difficult. I’ll be the first to admit that it can be a real struggle sometimes. So I totally get it when people struggle with it themselves.
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I second each and single word here!
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Thank You!
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Yes, I’m living for the positivity you’re emulating right now. Own it. It can certainly get us through some tough times.
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Gosh, it’s hard sometimes. But, I’m trying.
Thank you!
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And that’s all we can do. 🙂 I believe in you!
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You’re right, life isn’t always easy. You are sometimes too hard on yourself V – you are trying and that’s the best you do. You’re not a giver upper 😉
Hugs on their way x
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Thata’ girl! 😉
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That a girl V!!!! Yes to all of this because it is 100% true! It’s like I always tell my kids, stay reachable because nobody ever has it all figured out. We are fallible and human. Perfectly imperfect. I think this may be the corner I was talking about😉 you ate rounding it. Everything is about attitude, the way one looks at the world. It’s one of the few things we have control over. Life is about time management, preparation and attitude. I choose to keep a positive one and boy oh boy it certainly isn’t always easy, yet it is a simple concept.
I have shared my struggles with you my friend and I have learned the hardest lessons the hard way! Choosing to love yourself and the struggle allows your mind to let it go and embrace the moment in order to put you into an abundance mindset. I wish you nothing but the best V because you deserve that. You are thoughtful and insightful. I’m looking forward to your next step😊❤
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*teachable* sorry typos!
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Thank you so much for making my day… 🙏
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Thank you so much for reading ❤
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I love how direct and blunt this is. Alot of our draw backs are because we assume that we shouldnt be something. Whether its an emotion or a different version of ourselves. We all doubt ourselves, pushing through that doubt is what matters. Excellent write up.
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Thank you for reading. I think we’re all pretty good at doubting ourselves when the time is right.
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I have one personality trait that kinda helps with these kind of days. I’m stubborn. You (Depression & Anxiety) will not get the better of me. FU! You might be on top now but you are not gonna stay there. Better watch out when I shake you off!
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Stubbornness is a good trait to have, especially through struggle.
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Add my name at the top, and it’s a perfect letter for me. Really good way to get this message across 👍
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Thank you for reading. If this letter resonated with you then I really hope you have the strength and reminder to keep going through the chaos.
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totally love this 😀
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Thank You ❤
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I’ve been struggling so much with a lack of self-confidence and doubting myself lately, so this was so nice to read. Honestly this is something I can see myself coming back to and reading when I’m upset, it’s that well written. Excellent post, and thank you so much for sharing. Stay strong yourself. ❤
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Zoey, I hope that you find some strength and confidence in yourself. I know it’s tough. Trust me, I’m there with you. I’m sending you a lot of love and positivity. I hope your journey gets better ❤
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Great post and great pep talk.
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Thank you ❤
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Very heartfelt, and well spoken. Blessings to you… 💟
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Thank you, my dear ❤
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This was so wonderful/beautiful/amazing/perfect! It honestly felt like I really needed to read this right now. I think I may have gotten a little teary eyed reading it. Thank you for writing it and sharing it with us. It was so inspirational and just what I needed to read ❤
Emily | http://www.thatweirdgirllife.com
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Thank you so much, Emily ❤
Sending you love.Don't get teary eyed! If you're going through anything, just remember that it's all going to be okay!
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Some of this is kind of like having a convo with my oldest daughter. Thank you. I’m actually sending some of what you write (the links) to her.😇
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Awe. I hope that your daughter finds strength ❤ I've been there and I know what it's like.
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I needed this!
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relatable and helpful! thanks for posting !
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Very inspirational. I will always stayed “buckled up” until things turn around. Thanks.
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